Love -101.

This one is a deep post I am about to write.
I was dead to the world, till my roomate came in making alot of noise then I asked him if he was okay then he asked me, "how do you know when you are truly falling in love with someone?" Wow, I looked at my clock & it was 5 something in the morning, but hey, I am willing to give my 5 cents to someone in need of it.
So I sat down & like basically, spilled my guts out to him of how I feel in love with my girlfriend. Basically he took in what I said & hopefully he will let it sink & in before he makes the if not the biggest decision one close to it.
I really think that this thing called love is nothing to be toyed with, it's involves people's feelings & emotions. In this day & age love is like the new thing to be in, people say they love each other & don't know half of what it takes to be in love with someone...you can feel love at any age in my eyes, but just don't say you are in love with someone just because.

To me I knew when I was falling in love because of these 3 things:

1. She was constantly on my mind.

2. I always wanted to talk to her, ALWAYS.

3. Just thinking about her made my heart like melt.

It was a weird feeling at first but then I had to share it with her.

The Do's & Don't (s) in the love game:

-DON'T tell a girl/guy you love her/him & don't know if it is really real or not.
*take time, don't rush it, if you do the so called "love" will not last.

-DO, let her/him know ya true feelings for her/him.
*yeah, guys can be emotional to & break down to a girl & tell them how you really feel about them, it's a easy thing to do.
*gals, same thing guys can be insecure at times & think you ain feeling the same as he..tell him.

-DON'T tell the girl/guy you are in love with her/him & not stay committed to that.
*okay guys, so you can't love someone & still do the things you do, as in cheat, lie, etc..believe me I know this by experience, sooner or later she will lose all trust in you & then that alone will be hard to gain back..if you love her so much the prove that to her; let her know you will work for that trust again.
*gals, you can't put a dude down constantly for trying to gain that trust back if he did something wrong..punish him, put him thru hell if you want too, but don't constanly bring it up after he tried so hard to gain it back..the past will be the past..let's focus on today.

-DO, tell her/him that they the only one for you once in awhile.
*guys, there may be a time when deep in the relationship, she may question if the feelings you had for her back in the day is the same as today..let her know she is the only gal you need in your life, don't hide that & try to act "hard", it's a-okay to be a soft dude.
*gals, now it is easier for ya'll to be soft & all but assure ya man that he is the main focus in you life, that NO other guy can knock that, Let me tell you it will make them feel great.

This post is a deep one in my eyes, LOVE is serious topic that most people are either scared to touch or just don't believe in it..love is a good thing but can be hurtful at times, but at the end run you gotta think to yourself..was it really worth it?

Take your time with LOVE it will always be here.